For a couple of newly-weds Mac and I didn’t spend enough time together, the Pizzeria was up and running and life was hectic. Baker’s hours were hard, I would creep out of the marital bed each morning at 3:45 to start the day’s bread and breakfast pastries. Breakfast turned into lunch without a break, after which I would grab a much-needed nap before the dinner rush. It was usually 11:00 before I got home, where I would find Mac either asleep or watching movies with a bunch of his friends! Time spent alone simply wasn’t an option in those early days and I often felt that I was neglecting my husband.
Mac’s birthday was approaching and I decided to throw a surprise party for him at the Pizzeria. This was a huge sacrifice, the Island was filled with tourists in March and I would have to close the restaurant for the night. However, I wanted to do something special for Mac and started spreading word about the party.
Keeping a secret on Bequia is almost impossible, and I wanted the party to be a surprise. With few ‘phones and no computers I had to invite our friends via word of mouth. This wasn’t so very hard, making sure that Mac didn’t hear about it was the challenge. I told everyone to bring a bottle and an appetite for pizza and NOT to tell Mac!
Mac was a very popular man and had a lot of friends. A large group assembled at the Pizzeria as the sun went down, and when it started to get dark I shouted up to the house for Mac. When he emerged onto the porch I told him the ovens weren’t working and that I needed him to come quickly. By then he must have been feeling “down”, I had made of point of not mentioning his birthday, letting him think I had forgotten his special day.
Mac arrived with a huge scowl on his face – he was not looking forward to tinkering with the ovens during the busy dinner hour. He was truly startled when everyone jumped up and shouted, “Surprise!!”. I threw my arms around him and said, “Happy Birthday sweetheart!”. With another scowl he said, “today is NOT my birthday!” Whoops! I got the bloody date wrong, his birthday wasn’t for another three days!
Well, we had the party anyway, and what a blast! I kept a steady stream of conch fritters and pizzas going while a friend lined up dancing music. Between the drinks, food and packaloulou the party was a huge success, Mac had chilled out and was having a great time. Our friend George arrived wearing just an apron, the front of which resembled a tuxedo, the back featuring his bare bum. Others were dressed outrageously too but George won the prize that night!
The party went on until the wee hours, I had started the day’s baking by the time people started to disperse. Stepping into the dining room after the sun had risen I noticed something hanging over my exora bush. On closer inspection I saw that it was George’s apron, I guess he had left it as a gift for the hostess with the mostest!
Hey Jude,
Yours is the very first blog I have ever read or followed. I am totally in love with yours. I look forward to every post and it is so wonderful to be reminded of all the memories of those heartfelt days gone by. You have a real talent for writing and all the stories are clear, humourus and excellently written.
It is heart wrenching to see pictures of old friends one has not seen in donkey years and I have copied many of the photos of them to my Bequia folder. These pictures of Mac are great and remind me of all the years I sailed with him and Mackey on Kiruna , unfortunately both gone. You have brought a tear to my eye more than once and make me homesick for Bequia back when…..
So my Thanks for your Blog and keep up the good work. I anticipate the next story with impatience…..nothing like a good read.
Love, Melinda P.S. Hugs to you and Nick.
Beautiful story.
Thanks Melinda! You brought a year to my eye.
I’m really enjoying your blogs. What a time…..I wish I had known Bequia then <3